We teach you how to ask the right questions, and empower you to communicate your concerns to your provider.  You don't need more fear in your childbirth education, you need more tools and infomation.  

An emergency cesarean was not part of Ellen and Dan's plans for birth. Dan describes how empowered he felt leaving the workshop with the tools to facilitate for Ellen before and after her emergency cesarean birth.
 
 
Sadly it is very common for woman to have traumatic and disappointing birth experiences with their first birth.  Let us help you change your expectations and prepare for a beautiful and positive birth this time.

GentleBirth Mom Clare describes how GentleBirth helped her overcome her fears after a difficult first birth experience.
 
 
This week on Bold and the Beautiful the Forresters and Spencers talk homebirth, midwives & doulas.
 
 
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I admit, the Royal Family fascinates me!  According to Life & Style Weekly, Kate is expecting baby #3 with Prince William.  If it's true, congratulations to the growing family!

Like many of us regular non-royal moms, Kate has had rough pregnancies dealing with hyperemesis and bed-rest.  I was sick through the entire duration of pregnancy #2.  It was horrible.

However, Kate is a future Queen.  She is provided unending support by nannies, midwives, Ladies Maids and chefs...(ahhhh Downton Abbey season 6 starts soon in the US!)   

While I may be Queen of my Castle here in Morganville NJ, the staffing is sadly inadequate. If this was a Vlog, I would pan the camera.  You would see, my maid sucks and the chef did not show up again today.

So how can we get the royal treatment for our pregnancy and early days after the baby arrives?  Here are my 3 quick suggestions:

1.  Plan ahead for time to rest.  Kate has planners and schedulers whose sole purpose is to plan her day.  I have my datebook.  It's sad we have to plan to rest, but we do, so learn to use the crock-pot, follow-our Menu Monday Blog and sign-up any older kids you have for some activity that takes them out of your space for an hour or two.  We all benefit from some child-free time and they benefit from some mommy-free time.

2.  Surround yourself with people who are positive support.  A good friend who just agrees because she know it's what you need to hear, and then gently nudges you in the better direction.  ie:  Me:  I am going to eat this entire box of Ghirardelli chocolates and follow them with a bottle of wine! Friend: Sounds AWESOME!  How about I take you for a milkshake and a pedi instead?

3.  Plan for "after birth support".  If you can afford a nanny, hire one.  If not, this is the time to put some cash aside for a postpartum doula.  Kate has them, we should all have them.  A Postpartum Doula comes to you and does all the things that Kate's staff does for her. She helps mom with self-care, she helps care for baby, she helps you spend time with older siblings, she makes sure you are eating and showering, she listens to you and makes sure you are healthy in body and mind!  She gets it.

Most importantly she treats you like a queen.  

Not in the creepy "smoking in the alley complaining about uppity nonsense" way.  In the "I will listen and support you without judgement" way.  It's time we all got treated like Kate.  
It takes a special kind of person with a great deal of patience and compassion and training to support a new mother.  And we have plenty of them!

Call us now at 732-754-9551 to see how we can treat you like a Royal.






 
 
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Soup is the most versatile meal for families with a #newbaby.  This is a great option to prepare as a gift for that new family you are visiting, too!

Just ladle into a mug and you can eat it anywhere at any time.  Keep it in the refrigerator and microwave a cup throughout the day.  

If you dice the ingredients small enough, you won't even need the spoon! (Great for those times when you only have one hand!)

Today's recipe comes from the SheKnows blog site.  They have a cool daily recipe blog that can be delivered to your inbox.

Tomato Escarole Orzo Soup

Serves 6

Prep time: 10 minutes | Cook time: 35 minutes | Total time: 45 minutes

Ingredients:
  • 2 tablespoons olive oil
  • 1 small sweet onion, minced
  • 3 garlic cloves, minced
  • 6 cups vegetable or chicken broth
  • 1 tablespoon tomato paste
  • 2 (15-ounce) cans diced tomatoes
  • 1 (15-ounce) can green beans
  • 2 cups chopped escarole leaves
  • 1 teaspoon garlic powder
  • 1/4 teaspoon red pepper flakes
  • Salt and pepper, to taste
  • 1/2 cup orzo pasta
  • Parmesan, for garnish
  • Fresh chopped parsley, for garnish


Directions:
  1. To a pot over medium heat, add the olive oil and onion, and cook for 3 – 4 minutes or until the onions are soft.
  2. Add in the minced garlic, and cook for an additional minute, until the garlic is fragrant.
  3. Add the vegetable broth, tomato paste, diced tomatoes, vegetables and seasonings. Mix well, then cover the pot, and simmer for 20 minutes.
  4. Stir in the orzo, and simmer for an additional 10 minutes.
  5. Ladle into bowls, garnish with Parmesan cheese and chopped parsley, and serve warm.


Original post can be found on the SheKnows website  

 
 
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Cranberry Nut Muffins

Last week, the staff of Wise Birth Choices had a information table at the Princeton Holistic Family Expo. Being the doula I am, I made muffins for us to enjoy while we set up our booth.  

I wanted to do something seasonal and festive but also easy to eat.  I adapted a cranberry nut bread recipe into muffins.   They were a huge hit with the gals and with Dr. Kyle Klim, of Integrative Wellness Group in Belmar NJ, who may have done a couple of muffin drive-bys, while also tabling at the same expo.  

Well I had a few leftover from the fair and have been grabbing one each morning on my way out.  I normally skip breakfast but these are so convenient and delicious to grab and eat on the go!  I am making it a point to make a batch of muffins every weekend for myself for an easy breakfast and snack.  

Ingredients
  • 2 cups all-purpose flour
  • 3/4 cup white sugar
  • 3/4 teaspoon salt
  • 1 1/2 teaspoon baking powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1 1/2 cup cranberries
  • 1/2 cup chopped walnuts
  • 1 egg
  • 2 tablespoons vegetable oil
  • 3/4 cup orange juice

Directions
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.  Spray or line muffin tin.

Combine the flour, sugar, salt, baking powder, and baking soda. 
Add the cranberries and walnuts, and stir to coat with flour.  
In a separate bowl whisk together the egg, oil and orange juice.  
Pour the liquid mixture into the flour mixture, and stir until just blended. 
Spoon the batter into the prepared tin.  
Bake for 25- 30 minutes.   

I stored the leftovers in a ziplock in the fridge.  This will make 12 muffins.
Todays recipe is submitted by the Fabulous WBC Doula Sara Sandstrom. 

Adapted from-

http://allrecipes.com/recipe/13566/cranberry-nut-bread-i/


 
 
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Placentas are a hot topic again, as Kim Kardashian announced she will consume her placenta from second baby, Saint North's birth.

While we know this idea isn't going to be for everyone, we have been getting calls asking for a smoothie recipe, so here goes. (Keep in mind you can make this recipe WITHOUT the placenta!)

If you have your placenta in your freezer, this is how you can use it!  This recipe is from Code Name Mama's Blog. Visit her blog for more smoothie recipes.

Vanilla Yogurt Smoothie

1 cup yogurt (greek or regular)
1 banana
3 frozen strawberries
1 tsp vanilla
1 tbsp flax seed meal (for Omega-3’s)
1 tbsp dry quinoa (whole or ground for protein)
Placenta
Dollop of honey (optional)


If you want to know more about the benefits of consuming your placenta as pills or tinctures, connect with us by calling 732-754-9551 or visiting our website NJPlacenta.com. You can also check out our digital information guide here.

 
 
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Kim Kardashian has just announced the birth of baby number 2, Saint West, and she will also consume her placenta, as she did with first baby, North West.  

In her app, Kim posts, "“I really didn't want the baby blues and thought I can't go wrong with taking a pill made of my own hormones--made by me, for me.  I started researching and read about so many moms who felt the same way and said the overall healing process was so much easier.  I had great results and felt so energized and didn't have any signs of depression!  I definitely had to do it again.  Every time I take a pill, I feel a surge of energy and feel really healthy and good.  I totally recommend it for anyone considering it!"

People eating their placentas is not new. It just isn't common practice in the US. For thousands of years, people around the world have consumed placenta as postpartum medicine. Placentophagy is the act of people eating the placenta after childbirth.

It's rise in popularity in the US has been heavily influenced by Hollywood celebrities who consumed their placentas. Below is a short list of celebrity moms who consumed their placentas.

Kourtney Kardashian - This mother of three has been very open about consuming her placentas. On January 10th 2015, Kourtney posted this picture of her encapsulated placenta on instagram and wrote, “Yummy…PLACENTA pills! No joke…I will be sad when my placenta pills run out. They are life changing! #benefits #lookitup." 

Alicia Silverstone - Encapsulated her placenta. "Someone gifted me my (dehydrated) placenta in the form of pills. And I have to tell you that I really loved it!  I got to the point that my husband said, 'Did you have your happy pills today?'  And I was really sad when they were gone. It really helped me."

Mayim Bialik - This Big Bang Theory actress and attachment parenting activist wrote a blog post called ‘You’re Not Gross’ that defended fellow Hollywood actresses Alicia Silverstone and January Jones’ decisions to encapsulate their placentas. In the blog post Mayim admitted she, too, had eaten her placenta in capsule form.  "It's good for mammals to eat the placenta and we evolved for that purpose," she wrote.

Tamera Mowry - Tamera Mowry tinctured her placenta after the birth of her son, Aiden. Liquified placenta, mixed with brandy, and administered through a dropper. Tamera, along with her twin sister, Tia, pulled a bizarre stunt for the season finale of the Tia & Tamera reality show. Tamera dropped some of her ‘placenta cocktail’ onto her sister Tias tongue. 'I was really, really surprised that it tasted pretty good mixed with a little bit of alcohol,' Tia wrote on her blog. 'It was definitely Tamera paying me back for making her taste my breast milk.'

Placentophagy has proven to be tremendously beneficial to our clients. While our clients are not as famous as the gals listed above, they mean the world to us!  The staff of Wise Birth Choices want you to have the best experience possible in birth & postpartum. We would love to speak with you to see if this amazing service is right for you.  Call us at 732-754-9551 or visit NJPlacenta.com to book your services.


 
 
Found this on social media today!  I could seriously watch him do this all day.  Thanks for the tip Dr. Bob....whoever you are.
And now we are seeing the follow-up videos.  From NJ 101.5 FM radio personality Jeff Deminski....OMG it works!
 
 
DoulaJill on Location - A visit to Peekslkill and conversation about certifying processes between doula organizations leads to a great video with the fabulous Debbie Aglietti!